About

Name: Victoria

Location: Midwest

Status: I’m a wife, a mom to an angel and a puppy, a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a cousin, a niece, a friend.  I’m married to Patrick, the most amazing man in the world. We have one dog, a Beagle-Jack Russel Terrier mix named Sophie.  We have one son, Joshua Patrick who currently lives in Heaven.  We also have one daughter, Madeline who is our rainbow and such a complete joy.

Why blog? I don’t know exactly why.  I’ve always been writing either online, in journals, or just on random scraps of paper… I have a B.A. degree in English – Creative Writing.  So, I guess I often feel compelled to be writing something.  I have done the “blog” thing off and on for over 15 years.  Lately, it’s been just a good place for me to put down all of the chaos that is inside my head.  It’s basically a really cheap form of therapy.

What’s with the name? I’ve always been more than a bit obsessed with tracing my family ancestry/genealogy.  So when thinking of a name for the site my brain went straight to the roots of a tree.  To me this was perfect.  Beyond finding the roots of my family tree and finding who I am based on who they were and where I came from I am beyond firm in knowing that my roots are firmly planted in my faith in God.  That is who I am.  In my life God and family will always be the most important things – everything else is just filler.

Whatcha gonna write about? Really just life in general. In the past four years Patrick and I met, fell in love, got engaged, planned a wedding, purchased a house, moved, had a wedding, adopted a puppy, had a car stolen, bought a new car, decorated and painted the entire interior of our house, got pregnant, had a fantastic pregnancy until week 29 when we had our son via an emergency c-section and lost him two days later, got pregnant again, and delivered a healthy, adorable, precious baby girl. Life has been a roller coaster to say the very least. Eventually, I plan to discuss everything from marriage, faith, family, parenting, diy, crafts, with a few recipes thrown in for fun, but at the moment my main focus seems to be on this journey through the loss of our baby and how we are handling parenting after loss. The journey may not always be easy or pretty, but I have faith and hope that in the end it will all be worth it.

Cast of Characters:  

My Husband: PatrickLover of all things 80’s, Batman, TMNT, Ghostbusters, Video Games, Movies, Baseball, Football, Animals, Italian Food, Joshua, Madeline, Sophie and Me ;)

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Our Son: Joshua Patrick – Born too soon on February 20, 2013 at 29 weeks gestation.  Went to Meet Jesus on February 22, 2013.  Mommy and Daddy’s little man, peanut, monkey, sweet boy, first born, beloved son

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Our Daughter: Madeline Rose Louise- Born April 9, 2014.  She is our rainbow of hope and so far loves car rides, her swing, smiling, music, and of course mommy and daddy.

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Our Dog:  Sophie – Lover of Blankets, Pillows, Chasing Squirrels, Walks, Us, and All Food

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And of Course Me: Victoria – Lover of God, Family, Patrick, Joshua, Sophie, Photography, Writing, Reading, Cooking, Baking, Nature, and Social Media

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11 thoughts on “About”

  1. I found your blog on the preeclampsia site on facebook. I am so sorry for your loss but your last blog about what happened to you in target was so touching. Almost brought me to tears. I had a 32 week preemie baby boy 15 years ago. I had been really sick and on magnesium sulfate and eventually ended up with placental abruption. My boy is healthy today but I really wish that they could find out how to prevent that awful disease. I know your baby boy is in heaven and that one day you will meet again. You are an amazingly strong woman and only God can give you that. I will be praying for you to have strength. God bless.

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    1. Thank you. This strength certainly doesn’t come from me. That much I know for sure. I’m so relieved to hear stories of women who have had preeclampsia and not only survived themselves, but that they have had children who have survived. Right now, I need all the encouragement I can get. Since Joshua was our first, and the chance of developing preeclampsia again is good, it is always good to hear stories that have much happier endings that ours did. Thank you for sharing yours.

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  2. I found your blog on the facebook page for preeclampsia survivors. We lost our son Peter after 2 days just a week before you lost your precious son on 2/13/2013. I didn’t make it as far as you did, I had an emergency C-Section at 24 weeks due to severe preeclampsia. Thanks for sharing your story. Feel free to check out my blog too.

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